Well it's MUCH better but still a tad off. I never had an issue resizing the screen to fit my TV but apparently now the scale is slightly different because now the fitting the height shows slight gaps in the width. Not a huge deal but its noticeable so :/
I thought that my be related to the old Asus video driver I had to use to get WiDi 3.5.41 to run so I uninstalled 4.0.18, upgraded to the newer Intel driver and reinstalled 4.0.18 again (without issue 
) but there was no change.
Other than the scaling being a bit off, so far everything does seem improved, even reconnects after a short amount of time are better. And that stupid dual frequency error message is gone 